Free Text Messaging

As technology continues to wrap us in her motherly arms, the growing use of the text message or SMS brings with it etiquette similar to common table manners. While text messaging offers the freedom of delayed response time and fast communication, text-messaging women/men can often push the wrong buttons. Here are some guidelines when texting or receiving SMS in a relationship.

1. Night time is for sleeping.

You wouldn't call her/her home phone in the middle of the night and neither should you text. Given that most text message alerts are loud enough to wake a person, respect her/him lifestyle. The late night SMS will make you look desperate and needy.

2. Don't say anything that you wouldn't say in person.

Similar to emails, the intonation and emotion in a text can be read incorrectly. Be careful using capitals and symbols- they can easily be keyed in the wrong way and misunderstood. A smile and frown are only one button away from each other but the response will be hugely different.

3. Alcohol and SMS are not friends.

Most of us have probably realized that drunken messaging is a cocktail for disaster.Most of the time the text refers to booty call of some description. Commonly problems arise when your message backfires and you look like a sleaze or you accidentally text the wrong number.

4. Keep messages brief.

Avoid the urge to bombard him/her with a long string of questions and a message that reads more like a novel. Similarly, realise when to end the text exchange. We are all busy people and your fanatic text barrage will make you look obsessive and possessive.

5. SMS is not for serious issues.

Text messaging provides us with a shield to protect our vulnerability but also offers a Weapon for guerilla warfare. We can use SMS to shyly ask someone on a date but when it comes to serious issues nothing can replace face-to-face conversation or a phone call. We all know someone who's been dumped by phone or email but being dumped by SMS is the worst. Never break up with a girl/boyvia SMS, it makes you look weak and irresponsible. Arguments are sorted faster with a quick call rather than a volley of scathing remarks, which often are misinterpreted and simply escalate tensions. In short, text messaging is fast and fun way to transfer a message when used correctly but be careful, it also has it pitfalls.

Happy Text Messaging...